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Feeling sad? Have you lost
interest in things you used to enjoy? Perhaps you're
suffering from a cold of the soul.
That's the concept that has
taken Japan by storm in the last five years, thanks to a
culturally savvy marketing campaign launched by
pharmaceutical companies to turn mild depression into an
acceptable malady that a simple prescription can cure.
Anyone familiar with Japan
will recognize that "kokoro no kaze" (literally
"cold of the soul") is a phrase guaranteed to
resonate with the citizens of that country. Preventing and
treating colds is practically a national pastime there.
Everywhere in Japan, you
see people wearing gauzy surgical-style masks covering
their nose and mouth. Although some may be wearing the
masks to protect themselves from the latest bug, the
majority of wearers are simply being courteous. In a
nation lauded for its complex culture of politeness, the
Japanese wear masks when they come down with a cold as a
polite way of warning and protecting others.
In Japan, your dentist and
dental assistants are likely to wear masks--not to protect
themselves from your mouth breathing, but to provide a
polite barrier so that you won't be inadvertently
subjected to their germs or the lingering odor of their
sushi lunch.
Catching a cold in Japan is
an opportunity to practice concern for others. How
brilliant, then, that pharmaceutical companies have
developed this new phrase to describe the symptoms of mild
depression. Now, Japanese businessmen, housewives and
students are running to their doctors in droves to get
prescriptions for antidepressants. In a culture steeped in
politeness, it seems that the same folks likely to cover
their noses and mouths to protect others from germs are
recognizing their obligation to protect their loved ones
from their melancholy.
After living in Japan for
five years and having a Japanese sister-in-law and four
beloved bicultural nieces and nephews, I have a great
fondness for that country. That's why I am saddened by
this new need to treat mild depression with drugs.
I'm all for turning to
pharmaceuticals to help those who are severely depressed.
I've lost two brothers to suicide, and even the worst drug
on the market is better than that outcome.
Crown Princess Masako, a
Harvard grad who surprised the world by agreeing to marry
Crown Prince Hirohito and live behind the closed doors of
the Emperor's Palace, prompted a national debate on
depression when it was announced recently that she was
undergoing treatment for the disease. Though it doesn't
surprise us that the life of a princess and its
accompanying expectations to bear heirs might be difficult
to handle--we all watched the sad story of Princess Diana
unfold--this is an unprecedented admission in Japan. The
fact that the Imperial Family has publicly acknowledged
Masako's struggles will have a profound impact on the
ongoing discussion of depression in a nation known for its
suicide rate.
Preventing suicide? Good.
Taking drugs for mild depression? Not always so good.
Does life in
"advanced" countries like Japan create stress,
frustration and sadness? You bet. Should a culture be
treated, en masse, by drugs? I have to question that.
The me-too mentality is all
too prevalent in a nation that prides itself on this
phrase: "The nail that sticks up gets hammered
down." I hate to think of millions of Japanese taking
drugs in order to deal with the expectations of their
culture. I hate to think of ANYONE taking drugs for that
reason. And yet, it's becoming a remarkably common
practice around the world.
Our folk wisdom tells us,
"Feed a cold, starve a fever." Traditional
remedies may help a cold of the soul as well. We don't run
to the clinic every time we develop an itchy throat. We
drink tea, take vitamins, get plenty of rest--in other
words, we take care of ourselves.
Shouldn't we try boosting
our soul's immune system first before choosing a
pharmaceutical solution?
Recognizing sadness or
dissatisfaction is positive. Dealing with the pieces of
your life that aren't fitting together is powerful and
rewarding. Making decisions to improve your relationships
or circumstances is empowering. Understanding our role as
growing, changing humans and applying mindfulness to our
greatest challenges strengthens and elevates us.
It feeds our soul.
Is it easy? No. Is it
healthy? Yes. And letting our loved ones know of our
struggle and our optimistic determination to work through
it?
Priceless.
Face mask, anyone?
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About
The Author
Maya
Talisman Frost is a mind masseuse offering
specialized mindfulness training in
Portland, Oregon. Her work has inspired
thinkers in over 90 countries. To
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